I have been pretty absent from our blog, that's for sure. I haven't even updated the blog with the fact that I have been pregnant! But, welcoming a baby to the family definitely calls for an update.
So a few quick words on the pregnancy:
We found out we were pregnant a week or so before leaving on a family vacation to Newport Beach and Disneyland! Luckily I was still feeling good for the trip, but I had to skip out on all of the adult/awesome rides on our Disneyland day. That was alright though because we spent ALL DAY doing stuff Jennika would like. It was so awesome watching Jennika's excitement while we were there. I LOVED IT!
Towards the end of the trip I started feeling crappy and then I felt crappy until about 18 weeks. Throwing up every evening and not being able to leave the couch all day was really terrible. We survived though! And that's pretty much all I can say about that. :)
The second half of pregnancy was a ton better. I felt good and baby was really nice to me! We found out we were having a girl in mid-July... Jennika gets a sister! So much for buying all the "gender-neutral" stuff when we had Jennika. Should have just committed to all girl stuff! We love pink!
At about my 34 week appointment Dr. Winward wanted to check on baby's growth since my belly measurements were always a little behind normal. I had a growth ultrasound and we saw that baby was measuring a little small in her belly and my amniotic fluid was around a 9. Relatively low, but nothing to be too worried about. Baby also had a slow-ish heart rate though so doc said I needed to do Non-Stress Tests each week.
The NSTs were good... no issues there. At my 35 week appointment doc did another ultrasound to check on the fluid levels. Surprisingly it was up to 11! That was good! At this point though, because of baby's smaller size and restricted growth we knew we were looking at baby coming earlier than her December 9th due date. (Jennika's birth story was very similar to this so far, so knowing the numbers from Jennika's growth ultrasounds made us pretty sure this baby would be coming soon.)
I went into my 36 week appointment on Friday, the 13th. Dane was home from work because he wasn't feeling well so he stayed with Jennika while I went to the doc.
In my exam, Dr. Winward checked baby's heart rate, which sounded good and she said I was 2 cm dilated ... but that baby was still breech. I'd been hoping for weeks that she would flip, but her bum was lodged pretty far down with her feet up by her head. She wasn't going anywhere, especially with less fluid to move around in. Dr. Winward said "you've got to have a pool to do a backflip!"
After my exam we went to do an ultrasound to check on the fluid levels again. Dr. Winward checked all over my belly and was only able to measure 4 units of fluid. Down from 11 last week! So Crazy! Well, anything less than 5 means it's time for baby to be born. I knew that from Jennika's birth so I was starting to freak out a little bit!
Dr. Winward said she was going to call down to Labor & Delivery and let them know I was coming. I asked if I could wait a day and try to flip baby doing handstands and whatnot, but she said no. ;) While we were waiting to hear back from L&D, I started calling people. (It took awhile for the hospital to be willing to admit me since I was 36 weeks. They had to make sure an induction was medically necessary from a 2nd doc.)
I called Dane first. He was shocked, like I was, but I could tell he was so excited! He was just talking to me earlier that day about how he couldn't wait to hold baby girl and meet her finally! And I told him earlier that I couldn't have a baby that day because I didn't sleep well that night! Well, it was baby time and Dane was in charge of packing a bag for me at the hospital. I just kept texting him things to pack as I thought of them. He told me later he was a mess trying to get everything together. (That was me when Jennika was born! Ha!)
Next I called my mom and dad. I talked to my dad and he said they would head over to watch Jennika. They met me at the hospital first so Dane and my dad could give me a blessing.
Next phone call was to work to let them know I would be taking the next week off. Yay!
Well, I got all set up at in my hospital room. I had to go do a special ultrasound with the maternal fetal medicine doctor so he could basically confirm what Dr. Winward saw. I asked him if it was possible to do a version (flip baby from the outside). He checked out the space he had to work with and said no. :( All the space that wasn't being taken up by baby or the 4 units of fluid was umbilical cord. So there was literally nowhere for baby to flip.
So I was off to have a c-section. I was pretty worried about it. I hadn't heard too many good stories about c-sections. And Jennika's birth was so great, I was hoping I could just duplicate her birth. I had about 4-5 hours to think about it because I had to wait to have the surgery 8 hours total since I ate last.
That time went by SUPER fast. I thought I would sleep or something, but nope! They wheeled me back to the operating room at 8:00pm. I got my spinal put in. Aside from it being a little uncomfortable for a minute, it wasn't too bad. The numbness felt so great! I still can't get over how awesome anesthesia is when you've been pregnant for months and months.
Dane came in once I was all set up. I told him I didn't want him to look over the curtain because it would so gross! He was pretty interested to see though haha. Not much I could do to stop him! I'm glad I didn't because he took some pictures that are pretty great and awesome to see (if you can look past all the blood).
Dr. Winward and Dr. Benham came in at 8:30 to start the surgery. Aside from some pushing and pressure, I had no idea what they were doing! They were so chill, it was pretty funny to listen to them and their tone as they worked. After 10 minutes, baby girl was born! It took her a minute to start crying, but once she started, she didn't stop for a while! She had a really strong scream and was breathing fine. We were a little worried about her since she was 4 weeks early, but the NICU staff on hand checked her out and she was perfect! She weighed it at 5 lbs 8 oz, which was a bit bigger than predicted. And she was 18 inches long. Not to mention, she was so beautiful! She has the most perfect face and the cutest nose! We fell in love with her instantly!
We spent the next day and a half at the hospital. I love the hospital stay haha! Everyone is taking care of us and the food is so good! Baby Lily did great and was eating really well. I was feeling really good too! I was up and moving better after Lily's birth than with Jennika's, which was a nice surprise.
We are so grateful for all the help we got from family and friends while we were at the hospital. I didn't have to worry about anything the whole time we were gone! We're so blessed to have had a healthy and successful delivery and a healthy baby girl. We still can't believe Lily is here so early and that everything went so well. Blessed doesn't even begin to cover it!



















